These babies crack me up...I cannot believe that I get to spend every day with them in all their cuteness and dorkiness...
Love,
Mom
These babies crack me up...I cannot believe that I get to spend every day with them in all their cuteness and dorkiness...
Love,
Mom
My husband gave me a huge compliment the other day. Now that we are trying to get a bit more serious about naps, we were talking about how good our babies are at sleeping during the night. I mentioned that how lucky we were to have babies that just automatically slept really well. He looked at me and said that I was the reason why our babies slept so well, I was sleep training them from the beginning.
Hmmm, never really thought about that. I just knew from the beginning, that I needed to establish routines that I could manage alone, since I knew the would come a time, where all my wonderful helpers would leave. So, I was probably a bit annoying in the beginning...bitchy some might say...but I have to admit that these "rules" were established out of fear. I was terrified to be alone with my babies. I was that person, who did not want to leave the hospital... Anyway, these were the "rules":
- babies will not fall asleep on people (so hard to do, but how could I possibly have two babies sleeping on me)
- babies will sleep in their crib, and only in swings or bouncers if necessary
- babies will go to bed while awake and learn to fall asleep on their own, but we'll be there to comfort them as needed
- babies sleep - eat - play, so they don't rely on food to get them to sleep
- we do our bedtime bath routine regardless of how tired we might be
- we ignore babies when they are stirring at night. Check on them, are they okay? But some of the gruntings are fine to ignore.
- babies will be fed every 3 hours or as close to it, to encourage stomach emptying and ensure a good feed.
Man, do I sound like a horrible mother or what???
Looking back on this, I guess I did sleep train without a conscious effort. And many of these rules were broken time and time again. Hey, survival is what it is all about in the beginning. But I also believe that I have the best babies in the world. They now sleep from 7-7:30pm until 6-7am and only wake to feed once a night (a quick 10 min feed). My babies are amazing!!
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| Bedroom ready |
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| Bathroom ready |
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| Clean babies drinking their bottles |
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| My J Bear monster |
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| My Sweet Pea fish |
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| One down, one to go... |
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| Next morning's tummy time - love those little buts. |
7:15am - Begin feeding Caroline but she is just playing with bottle. I put both down on the mat in living room while I eat breakfast with hubby. Babies are really busy looking at the Christmas tree lights.
10:45am They decide to be hungry again and I feed them rest of their 4oz bottles. Caroline falls asleep. Joshua is fusses and I put diapers in the dryer. After a while I decide to take Joshua into the shower in bouncy seat so that I can get a shower, hoping that the steam will help his congestion. It does settle him down but before I know it, I'm out of hot water. Brr, nothing like a cold shower.
4:40pm - Both at mat for play time. I wash the bottles.![]() |
| Chilling at home while Mommy & Daddy are packing up the entire house to bring. |
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| Diaper change on front seat - it was really cold outside. |
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| Stretching out on the front seat. |
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| Feeding stop in the middle of nowhere. |
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| Yes, my baby is spitting up in this picture and yes, she does look a bit like "Fat Bastard" from the Austin Powers movie. |
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| Fort Stockton, TX. We just had to stop there for our annual picture with the Christmas Roadrunner. |
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| First day of hiking. |
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| Beautiful Santa Elena Canyon. |
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| Finally got them to wear the Christmas hats. |
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| Their Christmas outfits matched our beer of choice. |
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| Car seats worked wonderfully as rockers in restaurant. Babies were quiet for both dinners and breakfasts. |
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| Boquillas Canyon - temps were in the 70s. Almost overheated Joshua during hike. |
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| Chilling by the Rio Grande. |
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| Done hiking and hanging out on the tailgate for feedings and diaper changes. |
